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Dr. Courtney's guide to happy marriage

Chapter 12: The Mother-in-Law.
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A practical manual offers straightforward guidance for newlyweds and those contemplating marriage, arguing that marriage should arise from mutual love and esteem rather than mere physical desire. It lists rules for marital happiness—complete confidence, avoidance of secrets and public reproach, forbearance, continuing courtship, affectionate reconciliation, and partnership in finances and household duties. Separate sections recommend domestic stewardship and economy for wives and generosity, tenderness, transparency, and support for husbands. Throughout, the text emphasizes daily small gestures, mutual respect, and communication as foundations for sustaining a lasting, harmonious partnership.

The Mother-in-Law.

A mother-in-law is often a blessing, but few will admit the truth of this statement. Many men, however, have found her to be a ministering angel in disguise. It is better, nevertheless, for the newly-married couple to live by themselves, if possible, and not be under the sway of a mother-in-law, or other relative, however kind and unselfish she or they may be. They ought to strike out for themselves. A mother-in-law, however good her intention may be (and no doubt her intentions are always good), is pretty sure to prove meddlesome and dictatorial to a greater or less degree, and end by being an element of discord in what ought to be a happy home. You will find it better to paddle your own canoe, even if you do not make very rapid or easy progress at first.