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Dr. Courtney's guide to happy marriage

Chapter 5: How to be Happy.
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About This Book

A practical manual offers straightforward guidance for newlyweds and those contemplating marriage, arguing that marriage should arise from mutual love and esteem rather than mere physical desire. It lists rules for marital happiness—complete confidence, avoidance of secrets and public reproach, forbearance, continuing courtship, affectionate reconciliation, and partnership in finances and household duties. Separate sections recommend domestic stewardship and economy for wives and generosity, tenderness, transparency, and support for husbands. Throughout, the text emphasizes daily small gestures, mutual respect, and communication as foundations for sustaining a lasting, harmonious partnership.

How to be Happy.

Those who wish to lead happy married lives cannot do better than to follow a few rules which we present herewith.

Husband and wife ought to maintain entire confidence in each other, have no secrets each from the other; don’t quarrel; have forbearance for each other’s failings; you have neither of you married an angel. Remember, husband, that of every dollar you own, fifty cents belongs to your wife; she is an equal partner with you in the business of life; don’t compel her to become a mere household drudge, working for her board and clothes; she did not marry you for that. Try to see the good points of your husband or wife; don’t magnify the faults; we are all only human; don’t have the first quarrel and the second will never come.