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Hints on Child-training

Chapter 2: PREFACE.
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The author offers concise, experience-based guidance for parents on shaping children's habits and character, emphasizing training over mere teaching and favoring will-training rather than will-breaking. Short, focused chapters address discerning needs, wise denial, respecting individuality, letting alone, self-control, appetites, questioning, religious and Sabbath instruction, play and amusements, courtesy and reading habits, family conversation, companionships, discipline without anger, dealing with fears and sorrows, and the importance of home atmosphere and maternal influence. Practical examples and rules of thumb aim to help parents apply gentle, steady methods that cultivate habits, sympathy, imagination, and moral sense throughout childhood.

PREFACE.

Hints on Child-Training may be helpful, where a formal treatise on the subject would prove bewildering. It is easier to see how one phase or another of children’s needs is to be met, than it is to define the relation of that phase of the case to all other phases, or to a system that includes them all. Therefore it is that this series of Hints is ventured by me for the benefit of young parents, although I would not dare attempt a systematic treatise on the entire subject here touched upon.

Thirty years ago, when I was yet a young father, a friend, who knew that I had for years been interested in the study of methods of education, said to me, “Trumbull, what is your theory of child-training?” “Theory?” I responded. “I have no theory in that matter. I had lots of theories before I had any children; but now I do, with fear and trembling, in every case just that which seems to be the better thing for the hour, whether it agrees with any of my old theories or not.”

Whatever theory of child-training may show itself in these Hints, has been arrived at by induction in the process of my experiences with children since I had to deal with the matter practically, apart from any preconceived view of the principles involved. Every suggestion in these Hints is an outcome of experiment and observation in my life as a father and a grandfather, while it has been carefully considered in the light of the best lessons of practical educators on every side.

These Hints were begun for the purpose of giving help to a friend. They were continued because of the evident popular interest in them. They are sent out in this completed form in the hope that they will prove of service to parents who are feeling the need of something more practical in the realm of child-training than untested theories.

H. Clay Trumbull.

Philadelphia, September 15, 1890.