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How to be a man

Chapter 22: CHAPTER XX. ON FINISHING WHAT IS BEGUN.
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Aimed at boys in early youth, the work offers practical guidance on forming character through religious piety, filial and family duties, habits, education of body and mind, and everyday conduct. It provides concrete advice on schoolroom and table behavior, private prayer and Sabbath observance, useful labor, self-discipline, finishing tasks, choosing friends, resisting bad company, and wholesome amusements. Emphasis is placed on overcoming indolence, cultivating perseverance, courteous manners, and cheerful seriousness, while shaping moral sensibility, conversational skill, reading and writing habits, and usefulness to others. Chapters combine moral instruction, behavioral rules, and reflections aimed at building steady, responsible, and virtuous young men.

CHAPTER XX.
ON FINISHING WHAT IS BEGUN.

Beginning things and leaving them unfinished, exerts a bad influence in the formation of character. If it becomes a habit, it will make you so fickle that no one will put confidence in you. There is James Scott. If you go into his room, you will find his table strewed, and his drawer filled, with compositions begun and not completed; scraps of verses, but no poem finished; letters commenced, but not completed. Or, if you go to his play-house, you will find a ball half wound; a kite half made; a boat begun; one runner of a sled; one wheel of a wagon; and other things to match. He wants energy and perseverance to finish what he begins; and thus he wastes his time in frivolous pursuits. He is very ready to begin; but before he has completed what is begun, he thinks of something else that he wishes to do; or he grows weary of what he is upon. He lives to no purpose, for he completes nothing; and he might as well do nothing, as to complete nothing.

If you indulge this practice, it will grow upon you, till you will become weak, irresolute, fickle, and good for nothing. To avoid this, begin nothing that is not worth finishing, or that you have not good reason to think you will be able to finish. But when you have begun, resolutely persevere till you have finished. There is a strong temptation, with the young, to abandon an undertaking, because of the difficulties in the way; but, if you persevere, and conquer the difficulties you meet with, you will gain confidence in yourself, and the next time, perseverance in your undertakings will be more easy. You may, however, make a mistake, and begin what you cannot or ought not to perform; in which case, perseverance would only increase the evil.