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Progress and Achievements of the Colored People / Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success cover

Progress and Achievements of the Colored People / Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success

Chapter 123: SELECT YOUR OWN COMPANY
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The text surveys the social, educational, economic, and moral advancement of Colored Americans since emancipation, combining narrative chapters on leadership, labor, business, religion, health, and physical training with a detailed compendium of institutions. It presents statistics and government-sourced reports, profiles of schools and agencies (more than three hundred institutions described) and numerous photographs and portraits (over sixty illustrations), and offers practical advice on self-improvement, professional development, and community organization. Chapters address education, vocational and professional training, entrepreneurship, public employment, and civic life, aiming to document achievements and to guide further progress.

SELECT YOUR OWN COMPANY

“A man is known by the company he keeps.”

This is a proverbial saying and it is a true one.

You have only one life to live, and you must be as careful of that life as a man is of his gold.

Good companions help you on the upward path; evil companions drag you down. Men possess free will, but a misuse of it brings speedy punishment.

Opportunity meets you and asks: “Who are your companions?”

Not being able to deceive Opportunity, you tell the truth and answer: “Oh, I go around with the boys. We stand around the street corners; smoke cigarettes; hang around the billiard and pool rooms; play craps occasionally, and—”

But Opportunity does not wait to hear any more, it vanishes and keeps away from you, leaving you free to follow your own head.

It has come to be a test of quality made by every employer, to judge an applicant by the company he keeps.

“Tell me who your companions are and I will tell you who you are.”

There is no mind reading about this, it is common sense.

In these days when there is so much vice and crime; when men have become suspicious of their next door neighbor, a wise man is careful whom he trusts. If you associate with an element that is suspicious you can not complain if you are yourself suspected.

It is not necessary to go about with your hands folded in an attitude of prayer, or pretend to be overly virtuous and honest, all you need is to be a man, open and above board, and decent in your associations with others.