The etiquette of engagement and marriage

The book provides practical advice on courtship and marriage, beginning with how acquaintances and introductions develop into romantic interest and considering varied social settings and types of women and men. It addresses conduct between unconfessed lovers, the role of presents and hospitality, flirtation, age disparities, and how to choose the moment and manner of a proposal. Sections cover announcing engagements, relations with parents and friends, managing visits, correspondence and broken engagements, and differences in foreign betrothal customs. Detailed guidance is given on wedding preparations, selecting attendants and gifts, furnishing a household, and legal and ceremonial formalities, with notes on expected behaviour on the wedding day.