The Project Gutenberg eBook of Story Lessons on Character-Building (Morals) and Manners

This ebook is for the use of anyone anywhere in the United States and most other parts of the world at no cost and with almost no restrictions whatsoever. You may copy it, give it away or re-use it under the terms of the Project Gutenberg License included with this ebook or online at www.gutenberg.org. If you are not located in the United States, you will have to check the laws of the country where you are located before using this eBook.

Title: Story Lessons on Character-Building (Morals) and Manners

Author: Loïs Bates

Release date: November 3, 2010 [eBook #34200]
Most recently updated: January 7, 2021

Language: English

Credits: Produced by Emmy, Darleen Dove and the Online Distributed
Proofreading Team at https://www.pgdp.net (This file was
produced from images generously made available by The
Internet Archive)

*** START OF THE PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK STORY LESSONS ON CHARACTER-BUILDING (MORALS) AND MANNERS ***

STORY LESSONS
ON
CHARACTER-BUILDING (MORALS)
AND
MANNERS.

BY

LOÏS BATES

AUTHOR OF "KINDERGARTEN GUIDE," "NEW RECITATIONS FOR INFANTS,"
"GAMES WITHOUT MUSIC," ETC.



LONGMANS, GREEN, AND CO.
39 PATERNOSTER ROW, LONDON
NEW YORK AND BOMBAY
1900

PREFACE.

Although it is admitted by all teachers, in theory at least, that morals and manners are essential subjects in the curriculum of life, how very few give them an appointed place in the school routine. Every other subject has its special time allotted, but these—the most important subjects—are left to chance, or taken up, haphazard, at any time; surely this is wrong.

Incidents often occur in the school or home life which afford fitting opportunity for the inculcation of some special moral truth, but maybe the teacher or mother has no suitable illustration just at hand, and the occasion is passed over with a reproof. It is hoped that where such want is felt this little book may supply the need.

The stories may be either told or read to the children, and are as suitable for the home as the school. "The Fairy Temple" should be read as an introduction to the Story Lessons, for the teaching of the latter is based on this introductory fairy tale. If used at home the blackboard sketch may be written on a slate or slip of paper. The children will not weary if the stories are repeated again and again (this at least was the writer's experience), and they will be eager to pronounce what is the teaching of the tale. In this way the lessons are reiterated and enforced. The method is one which the writer found exceedingly effective during long years of experience. Picture-teaching is an ideal way of conveying truths to children, and these little stories are intended to be pictures in which the children may see and contrast the good with the bad, and learn to love the good. The faults of young children are almost invariably due either to thoughtlessness or want of knowledge, and the little ones are delighted to learn and put into practice the lessons taught in these stories, which teaching should be applied in the class or home as occasion arises. E.g., a child is passing in front of another without any apology, the teacher says, immediately: "Remember Minnie, you do not wish to be rude, like she was" (Story Lesson 111). Or if a child omits to say "Thank you," he may be reminded by asking: "Have you forgotten 'Alec and the Fairies'?" (Story Lesson 95). The story lessons should be read to the children until they become perfectly familiar with them, so that each may be applied in the manner indicated.


CONTENTS.

1.—MORALS.
CHAPTERPAGE
I. Introductory Story
 1. The Fairy Temple1
II. Obedience
 2. The Two Voices4
 3. (Why we Should Obey.) The Pilot6
 4. (Why we Should Obey.) The Dog that did not like to be Washed7
 5. (Ready Obedience.) Robert and the Marbles9
 6. (Unready, Sulky Obedience.) Jimmy and the Overcoat9
III. Loyalty
 7. Rowland and the Apple Tart10
IV. Truthfulness
 8. (Direct Untruth.) Lucy and the Jug of Milk12
 9. (Untruth, by not Speaking.) Mabel and Fritz13
 10. (Untruth, by not Telling All.) A Game of Cricket14
 11. (Untruth, by "Stretching"—Exaggeration.) The Three Feathers16
V. Honesty
 12. Lulu and the Pretty Coloured Wool17
 13. (Taking Little Things.) Carl and the Lump of Sugar19
 14. (Taking Little Things.) Lilie and the Scent19
 15. Copying20
 16. On Finding Things22
VI. Kindness
 17. Squeaking Wheels23
 18. Birds and Trees24
 19. Flowers and Bees25
 20. Lulu and the Bundle26
VII. Thoughtfulness
 21. Baby Elsie and the Stool27
 22. The Thoughtful Soldier28
VIII. Help One Another
 23. The Cat and the Parrot29
 24. The Two Monkeys30
 25. The Wounded Bird31
IX. On Being Brave
 26. (Brave in Danger.) How Leonard Saved his Little Brother32
 27. (Brave in Little Things.) The Twins33
 28. (Brave in Suffering.) The Broken Arm34
 29. (Brave in Suffering.) The Brave Monkey35
X. Try, Try Again
 30. The Sparrow that would not be Beaten35
 31. The Railway Train36
 32. The Man who Found America37
XI. Patience
 33. Walter and the Spoilt Page38
 34. The Drawings Eaten by the Rats39
XII. On Giving In
 35. Playing at Shop40
 36. The Two Goats41
XIII. On Being Generous
 37. Lilie and the Beggar Girl41
 38. Bertie and the Porridge42
XIV. Forgiveness
 39. The Two Dogs43
XV. Good for Evil
 40. The Blotted Copy-book43
XVI. Gentleness
 41. The Horse and the Child45
 42. The Overturned Fruit Stall46
XVII. On Being Grateful
 43. Rose and her Birthday Present47
 44. The Boy who was Grateful47
XVIII. Self-help
 45. The Crow and the Pitcher48
XIX. Content
 46. Harold and the Blind Man49
XX. Tidiness
 47. The Slovenly Boy50
 48. Pussy and the Knitting51
 49. The Packing of the Trunks53
XXI. Modesty
 50. The Violet54
 51. Modesty in Dress55
XXII. On Giving Pleasure to Others
 52. "Selfless" and "Thoughtful".    A Fairy Tale56
 53. The Bunch of Roses56
 54. Edwin and the Birthday Party57
 55. Davie's Christmas Present59
XXIII. Cleanliness
 56. Why we Should be Clean61
 57. Little Creatures who like to be Clean62
 58. The Boy who did not like to be Washed63
 59. The Nails and the Teeth64
XXIV. Pure Language
 60. Toads and Diamonds. A Fairy Tale66
XXV. Punctuality
 61. Lewis and the School Picnic67
XXVI. All Work Honourable
 62. The Chimney-sweep69
XXVII. Bad Companions
 63. Playing with Pitch70
 64. Stealing Strawberries71
XXVIII. On Forgetting
 65. Maggie's Birthday Present73
 66. The Promised Drive74
 67. The Boy who Remembered75
XXIX. Kindness to Animals
 68. Lulu and the Sparrow76
 69. Why we Should be Kind to Animals77
 70. The Butterfly78
 71. The Kind-hearted Dog78
XXX. Bad Temper
 72. How Paul was Cured79
 73. The Young Horse80
XXXI. Selfishness
 74. The Child on the Coach82
 75. Edna and the Cherries82
 76. The Boy who liked always to Win83
 77. The two Boxes of Chocolate84
 78. Eva85
XXXII. Carelessness
 79. The Misfortunes of Elinor86
XXXIII. On Being Obstinate
 80. How Daisy's Holiday was Spoilt87
XXXIV. Greediness
 81. Stephen and the Buns89
XXXV. Boasting
 82. The Stag and his Horns90
XXXVI. Wastefulness
 83. The Little Girl who was Lost91
XXXVII. Laziness
 84. The Sluggard91
XXXVIII. On Being Ashamed
 85. The Elephant that Stole the Cakes92
XXXIX. Ears and No Ears
 86. Heedless Albert94
 87. Olive and Gertie95
XL. Eyes and No Eyes
 88. The Two Brothers97
 89. Ruby and the Wall98
XLI. Love of the Beautiful
 90. The Daisy99
XLII. On Destroying Things
 91. Beauty and Goodness100
XLIII. On Turning Back When Wrong
 92. The Lost Path101
XLIV. One Bad "Stone" may Spoil the "Temple"
 93. Intemperance103

2.—MANNERS.
XLV. Preliminary Story Lesson
 94. The Watch and its Springs104
XLVI. On Saying "Please" and "Thank You"
 95. Fairy Tale of Alec and his Toys105
XLVII. On Being Respectful
 96. Story Lesson108
XLVIII. Putting Feet Up
 97. Alice and the Pink Frock109
XLIX. Banging Doors
 98. How Maurice came Home from School110
 99. Lulu and the Glass Door111
L. Pushing in Front of People
 100. The Big Boy and the Little Lady112
LI. Keeping to the Right
 101. Story Lesson113
LII. Clumsy People
 102. Story Lesson114
LIII. Turning Round When Walking
 103. The Girl and her Eggs115
LIV. On Staring
 104. Ruth and the Window116
LV. Walking Softly
 105. Florence Nightingale117
LVI. Answering when Spoken To
 106. The Civil Boy118
LVII. On Speaking Loudly
 107. The Woman who Shouted119
LVIII. On Speaking when Others are Speaking
 108. Margery and the Picnic120
LIX. Look at People when Speaking to Them
 109. Fred and his Master122
LX. On Talking Too Much
 110. Story Lesson122
LXI. Going in Front of People
 111. Minnie and the Book124
 112. The Man and his Luggage124
LXII. When to Say "I Beg Your Pardon"
 113. Story Lesson125
 114. The Lady and the Poor Boy126
LXIII. Raising Cap
 115. Story Lesson126
LXIV. On Offering Seat to Lady
 116. Story Lesson127
LXV. On Shaking Hands
 117. Reggie and the Visitors129
LXVI. Knocking Before Entering a Room
 118. The Boy who Forgot130
LXVII. Hanging Hats Up, Etc.
 119. Careless Percy130
LXVIII. How to Offer Sweets, Etc.
 120. How Baby did it132
LXIX. Yawning, Coughing and Sneezing
 121. Story Lesson132
LXX. How a Slate Should Not be Cleaned
 122. Story Lesson133
LXXI. The Pocket-handkerchief
 123. Story Lesson135
LXXII. How to Behave at Table
 124. (On Sitting Still at Table.) Phil's Disaster136
 125. (On Sitting Still at Table.) Fidgety Katie136
 126. (Thinking of Others at Table.) The Helpful Little Girl137
 127. (Upsetting Things at Table.) Leslie and the Christmas Dinner138
 128. Cherry Stones138
LXXIII. On Eating and Drinking
 129. Rhymes140
 130. Rhymes141
LXXIV. Finale
 131. How another Queen Builded142

LIST OF SUBJECTS ALPHABETICALLY ARRANGED.


1.—MORAL SUBJECTS.
 PAGE
All Work Honourable69
Ashamed, On being92
Bad Companions70
Boasting90
Brave, On being32
Carelessness86
Cleanliness61
Content49
Copying20
Destroying Things, On100
Ears and no Ears94
Exaggeration16
Eyes and no Eyes97
Fairy Temple1
Finding Things22
Forgetting73
Forgiveness43
Generous, On being41
Gentleness45
Giving In, On40
Giving Pleasure to Others, On56
Good for Evil43
Grateful, On being47
Greediness89
Help one Another29
Honesty17
How another Queen Builded142
Intemperance103
Introductory Story1
Kindness23
Kindness to Animals76
Laziness91
Love of the Beautiful99
Loyalty10
Modesty54
Nails, The64
Obedience4
Obstinate, On being87
Patience38
Punctuality67
Pure Language66
Self-Help48
Selfishness82
Teeth, The65
Thoughtfulness27
Tidiness50
Truthfulness12
Try, Try Again35
Turning Back when Wrong101
Wastefulness91

2.—MANNERS.
Answering when Spoken To118
Banging Doors110
Cherry Stones (see "How to Behave at Table")138
Clumsy People114
Coughing132
Eating and Drinking, On140
Excuse Me, Please (see "Going in Front of People")124
Going in Front of People124
Hanging Hats Up, etc.130
How to Behave at Table136
"I Beg Your Pardon," When to say125
Keeping to the Right113
Knocking Before Entering a Room130
Look at People when Speaking to Them122
Manners104
Offering Seat to Lady127
Offer Sweets, How to132
"Please," On Saying105
Pocket-handkerchief, The135
Preliminary Story Lesson104
Pushing in Front of People112
Putting Feet Up109
Raising Cap126
Respectful, On being108
Shaking Hands, On129
Sitting Still at Table, On136
Sneezing132
Speaking Loudly, On119
Speaking when Others are Speaking, On120
Spitting (see "How a Slate Should Not be Cleaned")133
Staring, On116
Talking Too Much, On122
"Thank You," On Saying105
Thinking of Others at Table137
Turning Round when Walking115
Upsetting Things at Table (see "Leslie and the Christmas Dinner")138
Walking Softly117
Yawning132

1.—MORAL SUBJECTS.


I. INTRODUCTORY STORY.