Each year that passes sees a few more stores
adopting the habit of fixed prices, not to be altered
by haggling.
On another occasion the good offices of the
fortune-teller were sought concerning a marriage,
and the powerful arranger of human destinies
discovered that though everything else was favorable,
the bride contracted for was to come
from a quarter quite opposed to the luck of the
bridegroom. This was no laughing matter, as
the bride was of a noble family and the breaking
of the engagement would be attended with much
talk and trouble on both sides; but, on the other
hand, the family of the bridegroom dared not face
the danger so mysteriously prophesied by the
fortune-teller. In this predicament, there was
nothing to do but to pull the wool over the eyes
of the gods as best they might. For this purpose
the bride with all her belongings was sent the day
before the wedding from her father's house to that
of an uncle living in another part of the city, and
on the morning of the wedding-day she came to
her husband from a quarter quite favorable to his
fortunes. It seems quite probable that the gods
were taken in by this somewhat transparent subterfuge,
for no serious evil has befallen the young
couple in three years of married life.
To the American mind this method of terminating
relations is always irritating and frequently
embarrassing, but in Japan any discomfort is to
be endured rather than the slightest suspicion of
bad manners. If the foreign visitor is trying to
learn to be a good Japanese, she must submit
patiently when the servant solemnly engaged
fails to appear at the appointed hour, sending a
letter instead to say that she is ill; or when the
woman upon whom she is depending to travel
with her the next day to the country receives a
telegram calling her to the bedside of a mythical
son, and departs, bag and baggage, at a moment's
notice, leaving her quondam mistress to
shift for herself as best she may.
Among the many changes that have come over
Japan in the transition from feudalism to the conditions
of modern life, there is none that Japanese
ladies regard with greater regret than the change
in the servant question. As the years go by and
new employments open to women, it becomes increasingly
difficult to engage and keep servants
of the old-time, faithful, intelligent sort. Notwithstanding
increased pay, and the still existing
conditions of considerate treatment, comfortable
homes, and light work, it is hard to fill places
vacated, even in noble households: and there is
almost as much shaking of heads and despondent
talk over the servant question in Japan to-day as
there is in America.
It is interesting to note that it is to the quickness
and courage of a jinrikisha man who interposed
between him and his would-be assassin that
the present Czar of Russia owes his escape from
death at Otsu, near Kyōtō, in 1891.
EPILOGUE.
My task is ended. One half of Japan,
with its virtues and its frailties, its privileges
and its wrongs, has been brought,
so far as my pen can bring it, within the
knowledge of the American public. If,
through this work, one person setting forth
for the Land of the Rising Sun goes better
prepared to comprehend the thoughts,
the needs, and the virtues of the noble,
gentle, self-sacrificing women who make
up one half the population of the Island
Empire, my labor will not have been in
vain.
INDEX.
- Adoption, 103, 112, 187.
- Agility of Japanese, 13.
- Ai, love, 415.
- Amado, sliding wooden shutters used to inclose a Japanese house at night, 23.
- Amulets, 329.
- Andon, a standing lamp inclosed in a paper case, 89.
- Ané San, or Né San, elder sister (San the honorific), a title used by the younger children in a family in speaking to their eldest sister, 20.
- Aoyama, 131.
- Apprentices, 309, 310.
- Art in common things, 237-239, 462, 463.
- Artisans, 235-239, 270.
- Babies, 1-17;
- bathing, 10;
- conditions of life, 6, 7;
- dress, 6, 15;
- food, 10, 11;
- imperial babies, 8, 9;
- learning to talk, 16;
- learning to walk, 13, 14;
- of lower classes, 7;
- of middle classes, 8;
- of nobility, 8;
- skin troubles, 11;
- teething, 12;
- tied to the back, 7, 8, 12.
- Baby carriages, 424.
- Baths, public, 10.
- Beauty, Japanese standard of, 58;
- Bé bé, a child's word for dress, 16.
- Bed, the Empress's, 446.
- Betrothal, 60.
- Bettō, a groom or footman who cares for the horse in the stable and runs
ahead of it on the road, 62, 71, 311, 316, 319.
- Bible, circulation of, in Japan, 412-414.
- Birth, 1.
- Boys, amusements of, 362-370.
- Breakfast, 89.
- Brothels. See Jōroya.
- Buddha's birthday, 365.
- Buddhism, 168, 240;
- Buddhist funerals, 131, 132, 347.
- Buddhist nuns, 155.
- Buddhist priest, story of a, 418-421.
- Building, 333-335.
- Butsudan, the household shrine used by Buddhists, 323.
- Castles, 151, 157, 169, 171, 173, 174, 185, 186, 192.
- Chadai, literally "tea money," the fee given at an inn, 251-253.
- Cherry blossoms, 28, 146, 166, 176, 177, 191, 295, 296.
- Childhood. See Girlhood.
- Children, intellectual characteristics of Japanese, 41;
- Japanese compared with American, 19.
- Chinese characters, 40.
- Chinese civilization introduced, 142.
- Chinese code of morals, 103, 111.
- Christian ideas, progress of, 402-421.
- Christianity, 77, 81, 168, 206, 207.
- Christians, Japanese, 404.
- Chrysanthemum, 166, 296-298.
- Civilization, new, 77.
- Clubs, women's, 391.
- Concubinage, 85, 111.
- Confectionery, 146.
- Confucius, 103, 168.
- Constitution, promulgation of the, 114, 276.
- Corea, conquest of, 139-143.
- Country and city, 278, 279.
- Court, after conquest of Corea, 143-146;
-
amusements of, 145;
- costumes, 146;
- in early times, 138, 139;
- ladies, 145, 148, 152-154;
- life, 138-168;
- of daimiō, 171;
- of Shōgun, 170, 171;
- removal to Tōkyō, 156.
- Courtship, 58.
- Crown Prince's wedding, the, 434, 442-445, 449-453.
- Crucifixion, 199, 234.
- Daikoku, the money god, 332.
- Dai jobu, "Safe," "All right," 320.
- Daimiō, a member of the landed nobility under the feudal system, 169-195;
- his castles, 169;
- his courts, 17;
- his daughters, 175, 177, 180, 182-184, 191, 192-195;
- his journeys to Yedo, 171-173;
- his retainers, 169, 171, 173, 175, 177-179, 181, 183, 185, 186;
- his wife, 175, 177, 182, 192-195;
- seclusion of, 172-174.
- Dancing, 38, 287, 288.
- Dancing girls. See Géisha.
- Dango Zaka, 296.
- Dashi, a float used in festival processions, 275-278, 366-369.
- Days, lucky and unlucky, 331.
- Decency, Japanese standard of, 255-260.
- Deformity, caused by position in sitting, 9.
- Diet, changes in, 424.
- Divorce, among lower classes, 66, 69, 73;
- among higher classes, 66, 68;
- effect of recent legislation on, 374, 439;
- new laws, 438, 439;
- right to children in case of, 67, 105, 439.
- Dolls, Feast of, 28-31, 428-430;
- origin of, 428;
- present meaning of, 430.
- Dress, baby, 6, 15;
- court, 145, 146;
- in daimiōs' houses, 187, 192;
- military, of samurai women, 188;
- of lower classes, 126-128;
- of pilgrims, 243;
- present tendencies, 457;
- showing age of wearer, 119.
- Education, higher, a doubtful help, 79;
- effect on home life, 77;
- producing repugnance to marriage, 80.
- Education of daimiō's daughter, 177-180.
- Education of girls, 37-56;
- action and reaction in, 433, 434;
- difficulties in new system, 52-56;
- fault in Japanese system, 39;
- in old times, 37.
- Embroidered robes, 95, 146, 188, 192, 456.
- Emperor, 111, 114, 134, 151-153, 155-157, 161, 164-166, 292.
- Emperors, after introduction of Chinese civilization, 143-145;
- Empress, 88, 115, 140, 150-168.
- Empress, Dowager, 152.
- Engawa, the piazza that runs around a Japanese house, 23.
- Etiquette, court, 153;
- Factory workers, women, 399 note.
- Fairy tales, 32.
- Family, organization of, 139, 439-442.
- Fancy work, 95.
- Father's relation to children, 100.
- Feast of Flags, 363, 364;
- Festivals, of flowers, 27, 99, 295-297;
- Feudal system, 169.
- Feudal times, pictures of, 190-192;
- Firemen, 335, 338, 339.
- Flirtation, unknown to Japanese girls, 34.
- Flower arrangement, 42.
- Flower painting, 47, 432.
- Flower shows, 270-272.
- Fortune-telling, 281-285, 331-333, 470.
- Fuji, 58, 242.
- Fukuzawa, his book on the woman question, 387-391;
- Funeral customs, 131, 132, 339-349.
- Furushiki, a square of cloth used for wrapping up a bundle, 354.
- Games, battledore and shuttlecock, 31, 32;
- Géisha, a professional dancing and singing girl, 286-289.
- Géisha ya, an establishment where géishas may be hired, 286.
- Géta, a wooden clog, 13, 14.
- Ginza, 265.
- Girlhood, 17-34.
- Gohei, a piece of white paper folded and cut in a peculiar manner, one of the sacred symbols of the Shintō faith, 464.
- Hakama, the kilt-pleated trousers that formed a part of the dress of
every Japanese gentleman, also the skirt worn by school-girls over the
kimono, 433, 456.
- Haori, a coat of cotton, silk, or crêpe, worn over the kimono, 8.
- Hara-kiri, suicide by stabbing in the abdomen, 201, 202.
- Haru, Prince, 113, 152, 442-444, 446-452.
- Haru, Empress, 155-168.
- Héimin, the class of farmers, artisans, and merchants, 203, 228, 229;
- Hibachi, a brazier for burning charcoal, 30, 72, 136, 307.
- Hidéyoshi. See Toyotomi.
- Hinin, a class of paupers, 228.
- Hiyéi Zan, 243.
- Holidays, 269.
- Hotel-keepers, 280, 281.
- Hotels, 247-250.
- Household duties, training for, 21.
- Household worship, 328.
- Hyaku nin isshu, "Poems of a Hundred Poets," the name of a game, 26.
- Inkyo, a place of retirement, the home of a person who has retired from
active life, 136.
- Instruction, in etiquette, 46;
- in flower arranging, 42;
- in music, 41, 431;
- in painting, 47, 432;
- in reading and writing, 38;
- in tea ceremony, 44.
- Inu, a dog, 250.
- Isé, 231.
- Iwafuji, 210-213.
- Iwakura, Prince, 157.
- Iya, a child's word, denoting dislike or negation, 16.
- Iyémitsŭ, 171, 172.
- Iyéyasŭ, 169.
- Japan-China war, 458-462.
- Japanese language, 16, 40, 179.
- Japanese literature, 147-150.
- Jimmu Tenno, 138.
- Jin, benevolence, 415.
- Jingo Kōgō, 139-143, 147.
- Jinrikisha, a light carriage drawn by one or more men, and which will
hold one or two persons, 26, 70, 92, 268, 272, 320, 321.
- Jinrikisha man, 26, 62, 69, 92, 108, 270, 279, 299, 316, 319-324, 473.
- Jishi, mercy, 415.
- Jōrō, a prostitute, 289-292, 406-411.
- Jōroya, a house of prostitution, 290-292, 406-411.
- Kaibara's "Great Learning of Women," 387, 389, 391.
- Kakémono, a hanging scroll, 44, 147, 238.
- Kaméido, 296.
- Kami-dana, "god-shelf," the household shrine used by Shintō worshippers, 328.
- Kana, Japanese phonetic characters, 40 note, 430.
- Katsuobushi, a kind of dried fish, 5.
- Kimono, a long gown with wide sleeves and open in front, worn by Japanese of all classes, 7, 94, 188, 192, 287.
- Kisses, 36.
- Knees, flexibility of, 9.
- Kotatsu, a charcoal fire in a brazier or small fireplace in the floor, over which a wooden frame is set, and the whole covered by a quilt, 33.
-
Koto, a musical instrument, 42.
- Kugé, the court nobility, 155, 170.
- Kura, a fire-proof storehouse, 147, 171, 173.
- Kuruma, a wheeled vehicle of any kind, used as synonymous with jinrikisha.
- Kurumaya, one who pulls a kuruma. See Jinrikisha man.
- Kurushima, 203.
- Kyōtō, 156, 171, 240, 241.
- Ladies, court, 145, 148, 152-154;
- Loyalty, 33, 75, 197, 206-208, 217, 302-304.
- Mam ma, a baby's word for rice or food, 16.
- Mamushi, a poisonous snake, 467, 468.
- Manners of children, 18.
- Manzai, exorcists who drive devils out of the houses at New Year's time, 357.
- Marriage, 57-83;
- ceremony, 61, 63, 435, 436;
- feast, 63;
- festivities after, 63, 64, 437;
- guests, 63;
- presents, 62, 435;
- registration, 65;
- to yōshi, 104;
- trousseau, 61, 436.
- Marumagé, a style of arranging the hair of married ladies, 119.
- Matsuri, a festival, usually in honor of some god, 274-278, 366-370.
- Matsuri, Shobu, feast of flags, 363, 364.
- Méiji (Enlightened Rule), the name of the era that began with the
accession of the present Emperor in 1868, 149.
- Mékaké, a concubine, 111-114.
- Men, old, dependence of, 133;
- Merchants, 262-269, 469.
- Military service of women, 188-190, 208, 223.
- Missionary schools, 56.
- Miya mairi, the presentation of the child at the temple when it is a
month old. The term is also used to describe the visits to the temple at
the ages of three, five, and seven, 3-6, 425-427.
- Mochi, a kind of rice dumpling, 4, 24, 25, 65, 352, 353.
- Momotaro, 33.
- Mon, a family crest, 366.
- Montsuki, a kimono bearing the crest of the wearer, 457.
- Morality, standards of, 76.
- Mother, her relation to her children, 99-102.
- Mother-in-law, 84, 87;
- Moving, 335-337.
- Mukōjima, 191, 295.
- Music, 41, 42, 430-432.
- Names, 3, 423.
- Nara, 247.
- Né San. See Ané San.
- New Year, preparation for, 349-356;
- Nikkō, 231, 245.
- No, a pantomimic dance, 292, 293.
- Norimono, a palanquin, 30.
- Noshi, a bit of dried fish, usually folded in colored paper, given with
a present for good luck, 2.
- Nurses, trained, 398.
- Nursing the sick, 101.
- O, an honorific used before many nouns, and before most names of women, 20.
- O Bā San, grandmother, 124.
- O Bă San, aunt, 124.
- Obi, a girdle or sash, 60, 435.
- O Bon, the feast of the dead, 358-362.
- Occupations, of the blind, 42;
- of the court, 143-150;
- of the daimiōs' ladies, 175-180;
- of the Empress, 156-160;
- of old people, 120-122, 124-128, 136;
- of samurai women, 223, 224;
- of servants, 299, 304, 306, 308-315, 318;
- of women, 85-103, 108-110, 242-256, 279-292, 306, 307, 310-318, 397-402;
- of young girls, 21-34, 38-47.
- O Haru, 211-213.
- Oishi, 198, 214.
- Oji, 296.
- O Jō Sama, young lady, 20.
-
O kaeri, "Honorable return," a greeting shouted by the attendant upon
the master's or mistress's return to the house, 100, 315.
- O Kaio, 324-326.
- O Kiku's marriage and divorce, 73, 74.
- Okuma, Count, 203;
- his speech on education, 382.
- Old age, privileges of, 120, 122, 123;
- Old men, 133, 136.
- O miyagé, a present given on returning from a journey or pleasure excursion, 274.
- Oni, a devil or goblin, 33, 466.
- Onoyé, 210, 213.
- Palace, new, 151-153.
- Parents, duties to, 134;
- respect for, 133;
- disadvantages in Japanese system, 445.
- Parents-in-law, 84, 87.
- Peasant women, 108, 240-261.
- Peasantry, 228-240.
- Philanthropic efforts, 415-417, 418-421.
- Physical culture in schools, 433, 453-456.
- Physicians' fees, 204.
- Pilgrims, 241, 242.
- Pillow, 89.
- Pleasure excursions, 99.
- "Poems of a hundred poets," 26.
- Poetry, 26, 148-150.
- Presents, 96;
- after a wedding, 65;
- at betrothal, 60, 435;
- at miya mairi, 4;
- at New Year's, 353-355;
- at O Bon, 358;
- at weddings, 62;
- how wrapped, 2;
- in honor of a birth, 1;
- of eggs, 2, 5;
- of money, 204, 205;
- on returning from a journey, 274;
- to servants, 311, 315.
- Prisoners' Home in Tōkyō, 413.
- Prostitutes. See Jōrō.
- Prostitution, houses of. See Jōroya.
- Purity of Japanese women, 216-219.
- Reading of women, 385-387.
- Red Cross Society, 398, 416.
- Religion of peasantry, 464-466.
- Retirement from business, 133.
- Retirement of Emperors, 134.
- Revenge, 198, 210-214.
- Revolution of 1868, 76, 221.
- Rice, red bean, 3, 5, 65.
- Rin, one tenth of a sen, or about one half mill, 240.
- Rōnin, a samurai who had lost his master and owed no allegiance to any
daimiō, 198, 213.
- Sada, Princess, 449-453.
- Sakaki, the Cleyera Japonica, 98.
- Saké, wine made from rice, 22, 63, 136, 296;
- Salvation Army's attack on jōroya, 408-411.
- Sama, or San, an honorific placed after names, equivalent to Mr., Mrs., or Miss, 20, 73, 124, 136, 232, 283, 284, 304.
- Samisen, a musical instrument, 42, 127, 277, 286.
- Samurai, the military class, 42, 75, 76, 105, 169, 174, 175, 180, 196-227,
232, 263, 302, 303, 307, 319;
- Samurai girls in school, 226.
- Samurai women, character of, 207-223, 458-460;
- Satsuma rebellion, 222.
- School system, 50, 378-381;
- object of, 379;
- statistics of, 380.
- School, Girls', for Higher English, 383-385;
- Mr. Naruse's Female University, 381-383.
- Schools, missionary, 56.
- Self-possession of Japanese girls, 47.
- Self-sacrifice, 214-219.
- Sen, one hundredth part of a yen, value about five mills, 240, 273, 298.
- Servants, characteristics of, 209-302;
- Sewing, 23, 94.
- Shirōzaké, a sweet white saké used at the feast of dolls, 427.
- Shogi, Japanese chess, 136.
- Shōgun, or Tycoon, the Viceroy or so-called temporal ruler of Japan
under the feudal system, 155, 169, 171, 173, 176, 185, 186, 191,
194, 197, 208, 224, 231-234, 292;
- Shōgunate, 155, 190, 192, 221, 222.
- Shoji, sliding windows covered with white paper, 23, 71.
- Shopping, 264-268.
- Sho-séi, a student, 308.
- Silk mosaic, 95, 192.
- Silkworms, 95, 246.
- Soba, a kind of macaroni made of buckwheat, 336.
- Soroban, an abacus, 266-268.
- Sumida River, 173, 295.
- Tabi, a mitten-like sock, 13.
- Ta ta, a baby's word for sock or tabi, 16.
- Taiko Sama. See Toyotomi.
- Tea, 91, 92;
- Tea-gardens, 247.
- Tea-houses, 250-255.
- Teachers, pay of, 204;
- Teaching. See Instruction.
- Teeth, blackened after marriage, 63.
- Temple, 4, 120, 129, 240.
- Tengu, a monster in Japanese folklore, 466, 468.
- Theatre, 33, 99, 292-294.
- Titles used in families, 20.
- Toes, prehensile, 15.
- Toilet apparatus, 30.
- Tōkaidō, 241.
- Tokonoma, the raised alcove in a Japanese room, 44.
- Tokugawa, 29, 151, 155, 231.
- Tōkyō, 49, 69-71, 108, 115.
- Tōkyō Mail, 231.
- Tombs, 98.
- Toyotomi Hidéyoshi, 232.
- Training-schools for nurses, 158, 398.
- Trousseau, 61, 436.
- Tsuda, Miss Umé, viii, 458.
- Utsunomiya, 70, 71.
- Uyéno Park, 296.
- Virtue, Japanese and Western ideas of, 215-219.
- Visits, after marriage, 63;
- in honor of a birth, 1, 2;
- New Year's, 25;
- to a house of mourning, 340;
- to parents, 98;
- to tombs, 98, 359.
- Voice in singing, 430-432.
- Wakamatsu, 208, 222, 457.
- Wedding. See Marriage.
- Widows, childless, 123.
- Wife, childless, 102;
- duties of, 85-99;
- in great houses, 92;
- relation to husband, 84;
- relation to parents-in-law, 84;
- social relations, 91.
- Woman question, new feeling about, 371-373.
- Women, general reading of, 386;
- in the city, 279-298;
- new openings for, 397-402;
- occupations of, 85-103, 108-110, 242-256, 279-292, 306, 307, 310-318,
397-402;
- position of, 17-22, 35, 36, 57, 65-68, 76-88, 90, 91, 93, 99-118,
120-124, 132, 133, 139, 143, 145, 146, 148, 168, 189, 190, 208, 216-219,
223-227, 242-247, 260, 261, 279, 292, 298, 306, 318, 371-378, 438-440;
- property rights of, 374-378;
- publications for, 385-391;
- purity of, 216-219;
- the new woman in old surroundings, 392-397.
- Women, old, appearance of, 119;
- Written language, proposed reforms in, 430.
- Yamato Daké, 215.
- Yasaku, 324;
- marriage and divorce of, 69-73.
- Yasé, 243, 244.
- Yashiki, a daimiō's mansion and grounds, 169, 171,
173, 311, 313.
- Yedo. See Tōkyō.
- Yōshi, an adopted son, 104.
- Yoshiwara, a district in Tōkyō given over to disreputable houses, 409.
- Zodiac, Chinese signs of the, 331.
- Zori, a straw sandal, 13.